I have always stuck with water-based lubricants because I had a few silicone toys for the most part; I didn't want to damage them. It was easier to keep one lube in the drawer than have to use certain ones with specific toys. I have come to the conclusion that my only choice is to throw away my silicone toys, because this is a keeper!
You don't have to throw away your silicone toys!
You CAN use silicone lube with 100% silicone toys. You shouldn't use it on silicone blend toys.