The Pink Candy Minx is well made leather harness that is designed for strap on sex and gender playing. While the Pink Candy Minx is not too much for a beginner to handle, the price might be, so I recommend checking out a cheaper harness if you and your partner are unsure about using a harness. This harness is more suited for those who like feminine colors and it is not ideal for use by those with an actual penis. This is because the leather material could rub the penis raw during use, but if that is your thing, go for it. The harness comes with a 2" O ring that is removable, so you can replace it with any O ring you wish.